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Tis the Season for Family, Friends, Food, Blessings

11/19/2018

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When you were a kid, didn’t it seem like it took forever for holiday festivities to start?  

​Now as a grownup, the season comes charging in, don’t you think?  I'm getting ready for it!  Read on for Thanksgiving traditions new and old, plus a 30-second holiday video from 'Lil Cat and an EZ-PZ pumpkin dessert you and the kids can whip up. 


Tis the Season: Family, Friends, Food, Blessings ~ catmichaelswriter.com

Here in central North Carolina, I'm watching trees flaunt autumn tints and madly searching for turkey day recipes I cannot find since we moved.
Tis the Season: Family, Friends, Food, Blessings ~ catmichaelswriter.com

​(Yes, I still have the old traditional faves on 3x5 cards from those days before internet and online recipe searches. -:D.)

​Even though I come from a long line of great cooks, I’m baking challenged.  Never contribute homemade desserts to our turkey day feast BUT … this year I discovered a recipe from Publix that even I cannot mess up!  It ticked all my boxes....yummy, easy and quick to assemble. To die for, especially with a dollop of ice cream -:D.

Tis the Season: Family, Friends, Food, Blessings ~ catmichaelswriter.comSlow Cooker Pumpkin Pudding Cake
I call it a Good and Gooey Pumpkin Dump Cake.  All you have to do is throw ingredients into a slow cooker and forget about them until aromas fill the kitchen and beckon every sweet tooth in a 10 mile radius <wink>.  

​Best, with help chopping nuts (or not if someone is allergic) and measuring, this delicious autumn treat is fun to make with your kids.  You can find the recipe HERE. Hey, please let me know how it turns out if you try it?


While I plug in the slow cooker and start a batch of gooey pumpkin cake to share virtually with you, my ‘Lil Cat avatar has a seasonal message for ya that's from the bottom of both our hearts.


​Whoa, if you live near Kinston, NC, we can greet each other in person, thanks to the Neuse Library and an Icelandic tradition called Jolabokaflod, or the Christmas Book Flood, when books are given as presents during holidays.
Tis the Season: Family, Friends, Food, Blessings ~ catmichaelswriter.com
Those Icelanders are very cool in every sense of the word!

I'll be at the Neuse Regional Library’s Local Authors’ Holiday Fair on 1 December from 1-4 pm.  Come on out to say hello and do a bit of Joloabokaflodding.  Details HERE


btw....Please be sure to watch for my next blog that's posting after Thanksgiving.  I have some golden news I’m beyond excited to tell you!  


And as Lil Cat says ...

Happy Thanksgiving to those who celebrate

and

a sweet November's end to all!

Thanks for letting us into your home
at this busy time of year -:D.


Tis the Season: Family, Friends, Food, Blessings ~ catmichaelswriter.com

YOUR TURN
If you observe Thanksgiving, what's the one thing you gotta have/do to make it the best day ever?  What favorite foods do you crave at this time of year?  Please share your thoughts in the comment section.

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“On behalf of myself and my veteran friends…” Dad’s letter to 2nd graders on the meaning of Veterans Day

11/11/2018

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Sharing a very personal blog today .... Dad's 2002 letter written to his then 7-yo grand daughter about the meaning of Veterans Day (that I cannot today still read without goosebumps and sniff-sniffs).  His post script demonstrates why his was called The Greatest Generation.

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Veterans Day Letter to Second-Graders - catmichaelswriter.comSailor Michael, circa 1944
P.S.  
"After being discharged from the Service in l945, I married a girl (USO Queen), whom I met in the service in Seattle, Washington.  I continued my Education, obtaining a B. S. & M.A. in Education, and becoming a science teacher in the Middle Schools in Norwalk, Ct., for 31 years.  I am now approaching 78 years of age, and enjoying my family  -  4  children, their spouses, and 8 wonderful grandchildren.  

Every day is exciting!"

Thanks to all who served.
Hugely grateful! 
YOUR TURN
What special memories do you have of Veterans Day?  How do you mark this occasion? Please share in the comment section.

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Rightsizing Daze - Moving from Chaos to Calm at Last

11/1/2018

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November marks the one-year anniversary of the roller coaster I call rightsizing: spouse JM and I left our beloved home of two decades to build a cozy craftsman cottage.  Other than divorce, downsizing and death, rightsizing has been the most chaotic event in my life.

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Still, I remind myself daily how blessed we’ve been to undertake this change. With apologies to Maslow's hierarchy of needs, read on to learn how I survived and hope to thrive during this time of upheaval.
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Moving from Chaos to Calm at Last ~ catmichaelswriter.com


Basic Needs, Security
starting points


There's nothing like the excitement of having your life turned upside down ... not! Those two weeks of closing on two homes and living in a hotel in the interim were a blur.  I’d wake at night, not knowing where I was.  I gained new understanding for people who don’t have a permanent roof over their head, and every night for them is another stab of uncertainty. 
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​TBH, I get squirrelly when there's extended periods of chaos like this in my physical space. Once we moved into the cottage, I attacked the unpacking, de-cluttering and recycling of a gazillion moving boxes. (It didn’t help that I was fighting an allergic reaction to a wasp sting. Prednisone dispensed to manage localized swelling had me madly organizing our new kitchen until 3 a.m.) 
Moving from Chaos to Calm at Last ~ catmichaelswriter.com
Cat in the hat with moving boxes
I looked to little things, like locating our winter clothes and discovering cherished pieces from Mama made the move intact, to lift my spirits and fight that feeling of being overwhelmed.  

I’m big on feathering the nest, too.  My surroundings are my security blanket and creative outlet, so I beavered away to make our cottage feel like a home. Furniture happily placed. Curtains I sewed for the former homestead draped perfectly on new windows. Pretties from the old garden nestled about, waiting for their new beds and soil amendments in spring.
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Moving from Chaos to Calm at Last ~ catmichaelswriter.com
A promised first dinner with BFF neighbors

​Best, four months and two evil hurricanes later, the new space was finally where I hoped it would be.  Then I kept my promise of christening its first "company" meal with our BFF former next-door neighbors and their daughters. We watched those two sweet girls grow from infants to amazing teens and were over the moon the family wanted to share this milestone with us.

Hey, you’re virtually invited to check the new digs, too, in a 60-second Before and After video from my You-Tube channel below.
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Social Needs and Self-Esteem
slowly getting there


In addition to months of hard labor with boxing, unpacking and organizing, I was unprepared for the emotional upheaval and feelings of loss from exiting a dear community where I knew everyone, and everyone knew me.  I tossed countless nights in the wee hours, second-guessing our decision to leave.
 
It helped to replay a lightbulb moment from a change leadership workshop I took back in my days in the private sector.  I remember having 5 minutes to find a partner and complete three rounds of guessing something the other changed in each round.

​Ah-Haaaaaaa!!!!!!!  

Nearly everyone, including moi, REMOVED items ... eyeglasses, notebooks, pencils, etc. Nobody ADDED anything to demonstrate change. ​

Gobsmacked! 

The key
to staying on top of transition was to 

stop
thinking of change
as a subtraction or
 
loss.  

Instead,
get down and
​boogie with change

as an 
addition or enhancement to new situations.  

Think of change as gain!


I focus on viewing our transition as a huge, lovely win.  Less on feeling sad by the loss of what we had before.

I miss the old ‘hood and cherished friends there, so I seek out new neighbors. And oh, those marvelous miles of wooded walking trails! I find different trails for morning walks that keep me sane and where I burn up audio books as I move along.  ​​I ramp up Body Flow workouts at the gym to 6 days a week to exorcise rightsizing demons.  Being more active with volunteering and community service helps tons, too.
Moving from Chaos to Calm at Last ~ catmichaelswriter.com
Autumn sky reflects along new walking trail

Self-Actualization
(be all you can be)

The most precious piece still eludes me:

I haven't gotten back to writing and publishing. I stopped altogether during the move and recently started with blogging and social medial in moderation.  But I never want to return to 10-hour days/7-days-a-week craziness of crafting blogs, newsletters, marketing strategies, book reviews, Pinterest/Twitter/Facebook/Instagram posts, plus cranking out my WIP.  Yikes! That was the road to burnout!  
 
However, I don’t have a current work in progress.  My kid lit writing is majorly stuck. 
 
Zip. Zero. Goose Egg. Sigh.
 
After ending the Sweet T Series because of the expense to publish its color illustrations, I haven’t figured out which genre or content to tackle in its place. In fact, my brain shuts down whenever it wanders to the topic. I hope as life settles and the holidays pass, my brain will kick in, and I’ll be back at it by the first of the year.
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In the meantime, I try not to fret and give myself permission to be on this transition roller coaster a bit longer.  ​Your company on my writing road helps tons, too -:D. Cross your fingers for me?
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Your Turn
How do you manage change?  What strategies helped you master transitions?  Please share in the comment section.

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